If your family is cruel and loves hurting you, is it ok to stop seeing them?

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2022.01.23 09:35 FearlessStaff2072 If your family is cruel and loves hurting you, is it ok to stop seeing them?

I understand that the family is very important, especially for hindus. They're there to teach us crucial life lessons. But if they can't change and keep the cruelty alive, is it ok to renounce trying to change them and stop seeing them?
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2022.01.23 09:35 Ossy-BTW I enjoy drinking water after eating mints.

I really just enjoy the refreshing and cold feeling of ice cold water after eating mints, I don't know if this is that unpopular but I really haven't heard anyone who really agrees with me on this.
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2022.01.23 09:35 DeadlyPython79 Am I the monster people say I am?

Basically my whole life can be explained by BPD. Like, everything I do. I keep finding new things about it, new behaviors, new symptoms, new manifestations, new feelings, new reactions, just so much stuff that explains who I am. My horrific childhood trauma dictates almost every single thing I do, and has dictated almost every single thing I’ve ever done.
Recently I learned that having an unstable sense of your own identity, with a sort of inability to connect things to yourself and forge the definition of who you are, to answer the question of “who am I?”, is apparently something that can happen, and it results in a chronic feeling of emptiness because you can’t figure out who you actually are and connect yourself to the world as a member of it, with your ability to ground yourself in the world you can’t connect to being external, which is part of why we cling to validation like our life depends on it, because our ability to feel alive in the first place actually does.
And it’s all based on that initial trauma: human beings forge a sense of identity in the world by the way they interact with other people, and by the way other people interact with them. But in childhood, it was all abusive, neglectful, fill with abandonment, chaotic, the only way people interacted with me was with severe negativity. It breaks the function of forging identity. My brain learned from a very early age that the world is cruel and unjust and everyone in it hates me and I deserve to be alone and/or abused. There’s no other framework for the brain to develop. All my interactions with people are based on trying to please them, trying to act the way I think they want me to, so I won’t be abused and neglected again. It’s survival based, constantly, 24/7, and there’s no end to it. And because all of my interactions with people are dependent on who I’m interacting with, I have no proper framework to forge what actually makes me, me Because it’s different with everybody, and your brain forges your sense of identity based on how people interact with you, and how you interact with them.
So am I even a good person? Do I even care about people at all? Or am I just unknowingly pretending, because I know that people will be kind to me and love me if I do?
I know I can feel love, that’s the whole problem with this condition, and I obviously care about the people I love because that’s how love works, you can’t love someone you don’t care about, but, do I actually care about people in general?
I do the things I do and plan on doing the things I plan on doing because it’s right, but, do I care about the people? Or is it just based on morality? Do I care about the say, starving children I’m going to feed or am I only doing it because it’s right?
I know that the reason I try to do good things is because it’s right, not because I get praised for it, because I do good things all the time and people never know about it. But did I develop it because of that? Is the only reason I’m a “good” person because initially people started loving me for it? Was that my initial motivation?
Do I actually care about people in general at all?
Are the people stigmatizing us right about me? About people with BPD?
Am I just a monster?
Or these just intrusive thoughts?
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2022.01.23 09:35 CinnamonAddict_ How do I stop being frustrated by tiny things?

Lately I've been getting frustrated by really tiny insignificant things. Things like dropping something on the ground or mis-clicking have really started to cause frustration that seems really unnecessary. I've also noticed this trait in other people around me; they say it comes as a part of getting older, but I feel like there has to be some solution to it. I've tried a few different strategies (such as reframing) that haven't really seemed to work. Does anyone know if there is a way to stop this from happening?
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2022.01.23 09:35 Mack784 Dave Meltzer on expiring AEW contracts: If it's a guy who's contract is up and he's not on TV anymore or being used, they will probably be let go.

From the recent WOR. Dave discusses the expiring contracts of Lio Rush, Brian Cage, Joey Janela and others.
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