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2021.12.02 01:19 oncesess Something about the 12/1 stream

Hi everyone,
Something about the stream today really bothered me, and instead of just ruminating I thought I would try to write something instead.
Prerequisites:

You can probably tell where this is going, and before rolling your eyes or telling me to get over it because you've seen this a million times before, please watch this and try to hear me out - https://clips.twitch.tv/CaringImportantManateeKappaPride-ARRWuf6hehjGSG3V
As I was watching the stream, things started to turn right around here - https://clips.twitch.tv/StylishImpossibleTireGivePLZ-oeC9c8qe9uY0Ncpu
There is a huge difference between saying men generally have entire categories of problems we don't have to face, and saying that we're playing on easy mode. I think he would agree because later in the stream he also said this - https://clips.twitch.tv/PleasantAmazingTurtleTwitchRaid-XhFMpHPs8vL7rIDS
How can both be true? If he said the "easy mode" thing off-the-cuff in a conversation it would be easy enough to hand-wave away, but it looked to me like he was reading from notes. Not only that, the rest of the points he made about men who are misogynistic online was predicated on that first point. I don't think it was an oversight or a mistake. Maybe it was a blindspot. Maybe it's so easy to be casually dismissive and invalidating of men that it can be done even while pointing out that there isn't a reason to do that. I really don't know why he said that since it seems to be in conflict with so many other things he said, but he clearly meant it.

Something he said during the stream that I really liked was the candy analogy. I agree that men who say "what about me" when the topic of improving things for women comes up are trying to steal someone else's candy because their needs haven't been met. But making the easy/hard mode comparison doesn't just smack the candy out of the potential candy-thief's hand, it smacks every male who didn't get the candy they deserved in the face and tells them they're spoiled for wanting it to begin with, because getting candy is easy for them.

I'm fully in support of women getting their candy, and the way men who don't get their candy handle it is their responsibility. But I don't think adding insult to injury to those who aren't getting candy is right. I don't think telling them they're spoiled or hateful for feeling that pain is right.
To reiterate, SOMEONE GETTING SMACKED IN THE FACE AND TOLD THEY DON'T DESERVE CANDY DOES NOT EXCUSE ABUSING SOMEONE ELSE OR TAKING THEIR CANDY. It's unnecessary and counter-productive. To wit - https://clips.twitch.tv/ExpensiveHeadstrongWalrusM4xHeh-fHKxr3jRJ2EEZ4on
So again, if the easy/hard comparison wasn't a mistake, how does it square with that clip?

If the goal of the misogyny thread and of this stream was to reach men and boys who are saying and doing misogynistic things, I am BEGGING you to believe me when I say that this is not the way. I'm happy to brainstorm other ideas in the comments or help in any way that I can, but this is a bad direction. Let's try another way. Should we focus on preserving the emotional health of men over improving the lives of women? No, but I don't think there's any reason we can't stop making the former problem worse while we try to fix the latter. I'm not saying that women should settle for less than they deserve, I'm asking that we please stop kicking men while they're down on the way to lifting women up.

If anyone made it this far, thanks for reading. I think that all of the above, along with what felt like some pretty mean-spirited jabs at pot smokers, left me with a feeling that I haven't been able to put my finger on or get passed. I feel some disappointment because I thought if there were one channel where I wouldn't run into this, it would be this one. And I know that the women who have been mistreated in the community may have thought something similar. I don't know how I'm going to watch him interview someone who smokes pot while trying to get better knowing that he's silently thinking they're lazy and entitled. I don't know how I'm going to watch him interview men who have been traumatized like so many of us have been knowing that, while he cares and is compassionate, he's silently thinking we're playing on easy mode. And I hate that there's no non-humiliating way to bring this up, because unfortunately the choice I have is to say nothing and let salt be poured in the wound, or to say something and be thought of as the same as the toxic men who have ruined my life too.
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